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1finny Posted on 06/12/2018 08:06
Edited On: 06/12/2018 08:07Do you think marital sex without consent is ok
 
 
If you do you are in good company - but the law is against you - thankfully
25% of people in a recent survey said it was ok

Rape is rape

Link: Sexual violence is ok for some
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lufbra_boro Posted on 06/12/2018 08:40

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Ok not sure I would say.....good company...
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borobosco Posted on 06/12/2018 09:06

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Sex should always be consensual & I was quite shocked listening to a report on this on the radio this morning but I would be interested to know exactly what the questions were.
There isn't a link on the article to the research & I haven't got time to look for it at the moment but I certainly will later on.
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Borobarmy Posted on 06/12/2018 09:14

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Don’t think the words “ love , honour and obey “ lent themselves well [sad]
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EpiphanyProudfoot Posted on 06/12/2018 09:23

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As long as there is no farting.

Very few blokes would agree to farting without consent as it can be a passion killer.
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coluka Posted on 06/12/2018 09:30

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“We know that 90% of women who are raped know the person who raped them”

“This could explain why juries are so reluctant to convict particularly younger men where consent is in question.”

No should always mean no. Rape is a heinous crime, but those two sentences above trouble me. The first do they mean 90% of convicted rapists or charged rapists? Hopefully the former.secondly if consent is in question then it is understandable that people are not prosecuted all the time.
Horrible as it is to say it, we have all seen cases where women have from time to time made the accusation up. Something is very clearly wrong though in the system.
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brattleboro Posted on 06/12/2018 11:05

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That is called rape to me[V]
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stevie-g888 Posted on 06/12/2018 11:49
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NO! Not at all! Just because you are married to the person doesn't give you the right to have non-consensual sex.
And if you do....then you are risking being charged and quite rightly so, with rape.
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go_nads Posted on 06/12/2018 11:56

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Who would even think that is ok? Barbaric is what it is and rightfully should be treated as rape.

You wonder what kind of dysfunctional relationship is occurring where that kind of thing could even be considered as normal behaviour.
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Bobby_Braithwaite Posted on 06/12/2018 12:39

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Just say yes to her, lay back and you never know you may enjoy it.
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1finny Posted on 06/12/2018 12:51

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The other worry, as the article says, is the likelihood of Jury’s being influenced by those thinking that way.
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ZippytheHippy Posted on 06/12/2018 13:58

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Sex without consent is rape, simple. Cutting his todger off works for me.[^]

Can't believe some think otherwise, there either [:o)]'s or XXXXXXs
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otto42 Posted on 06/12/2018 14:31

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Genuinely shocked at that large %.
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nashvagas2 Posted on 06/12/2018 14:51

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Who would want to have sex with someone who doesn't want to have sex?
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FartingGnome Posted on 06/12/2018 15:10

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It's about power and control, subjugation and humiliation. There are, unfortunately, people who get off on that.
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laughing Posted on 07/12/2018 09:38

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Is there not a grey area here for a married couple. So for example, if my wife is asleep and I have sex with her, would consent be implied because she married me? I suspect it would be.

If we accept that what if I use a date rape drug on her, is consent still implied?

I don't think anyone thinks its OK to beat your wife up and force her to have sex with you (or the use of roofies, obviously).

I suspect the survey confused some people in terms of what it was asking.
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brain_in_a_jar Posted on 07/12/2018 09:47

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Your wife must be a pretty heavy sleeper for her not to realise, but that would still be rape.
Marrying somebody does not just hand over consent for sex to be on offer as and when you like.
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laughing Posted on 07/12/2018 10:40

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Brain in a jar. It wouldn't be rape under british law. My wife has to say NO to me. The fact that she gets into bed with me allows me the assumption of permission.

Because we are married she has to actively say NO. Which is why I extended the circumstances to include a date rape drug.

There are some grey areas here, which is why I assume, people don't understand what constitutes rape in a marriage.
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Remster Posted on 07/12/2018 10:44

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This amazes me (the OP). Was there any demographic information about the participants?
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howcarlin Posted on 07/12/2018 10:44

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I often pop the little fella in when she’s asleep.
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ColinAllcars Posted on 07/12/2018 10:54

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What is the actual definition of rape? Can a woman commit rape?
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TheyurinatedinVilnius Posted on 07/12/2018 11:09
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No. Could you ask her to stop please?
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Remster Posted on 07/12/2018 11:45

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"What is the actual definition of rape?"

In English, in law, or on social media?
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newusername Posted on 07/12/2018 11:51
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"Was there any demographic information about the participants?"

Full report below

Link: Report
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Remster Posted on 07/12/2018 11:54

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VerymuchITK Posted on 07/12/2018 18:26

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Sex without consent is rape - irrespective of the status of your relationship. If one partner forces themselves on the other without consent just because you can and feel entitled expect quite correctly to spend a lot of time in jail. drunken spouses (men in the vast majority) have no right to sex when they want it just because they are married / in a long term relationship. 30 years ago this might have been the norm and accepted but like many things in the 70s and 80s in more enlightened times and looking back boy did we get this wrong
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HolgateCorner Posted on 07/12/2018 20:17

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Of course it’s not ok.

Where’s the pleasure if your partner isn’t interested?
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